Life gets in the way at times

Finally i get some time to do a blog..  

I know i have not been about for some months and that’s been a little bit deliberate on my part really..  Things got dull and sad.. being a single parent is not easy but i think me and my are getting there..  its been its coming up to 2 years since the decision to part was forced but i didn’t move out until the Jan.. and yes i have had ups and downs but mainly from things beyond my control..  

I for now have made the choice not to meet anyone else so i can concentrate on my boys,  and no i don’t really miss male company.. but i do miss my dog. in fact we all miss my dog..

My eldest is doing well in college but it is now coming to that time to sort work out but we have people to see to get him help for that so we are making headway..  

the youngest is full of cheek and loveliness with a hint of naughty but his a boy,  his settled well into year 3 as well as reading is coming on grand,,, In the past 2 weeks my 7 year hold has started lessons on the clarinet…. 

As for me,, i love my job at school..  for now its enough but it has been suggested to me to look into social media for work so may be i could work from home..  

I have decided also do some things for me.  its called healthy eating for life but under slimming world,, and in my first week i lost 4lb so a good start.. its a good plan to have, and i am doing this for me and No one else..  i can’t afford the gym so i am walking more, especially to school and work.. anywhere else the car is needed,  

As for the car,,  well i would a new one, but not sure how i can get one when on benefits.  its now 9 years old and so many things keep happening,  so far new clutch  4 weeks ago, new washer motor last week and now looking like a problem with emissions, or the fact its just a old car  who knows..

i have also been taking the boys out at weekends to various places but usually something involving steam engines or tractors


The Photo above is from the weekend at a steaming weekend at Stotfold Mill.. a lovely working rally..and probably the last of the season as it’s now getting cold and wet oh and darker early..  

There are a few things i would like to do with my life,, like get my own house, have a new car, have a dog but for now they are things that have to wait.. I would also love to get a tattoo, but being a pain phobic i am not too sure i can overcome that issue to get one done..  

best be off for a little while will chat soon,, catch you laters 

By Debbie

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